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		<title>Comment on Open Letter to North Style by Okelle</title>
		<link>http://okelle.wordpress.com/2012/04/26/open-letter-to-north-style/#comment-3013</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Okelle]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 May 2013 18:20:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Economic systems do not exist in a vacuum. They are moderated by the laws and mores of the societies in which they exist. In addition to profits for the investor, unbridled capitalism has given the world such gems as the Triangle Shirtwaist Fire, the Bangladesh factory collapses, and deadly air pollution in China. Suggesting that I learn to sew instead of complaining about the unfair treatment larger women face every day at the hands of clothing retailers is akin to that old chestnut &quot;America: love it or leave it!&quot; It&#039;s because I do care about America that I make my complaints. I&#039;m one of those idealists who believe that a good thing can be made even better. 

When I wrote the post that we are discussing -- more than a year ago, I might add -- I hadn&#039;t noticed the pricing structure of Woman Within. I&#039;m happy to admit this mistake, since learning from mistakes is a wonderful avenue for growth. It doesn&#039;t change the fact that North Style&#039;s treatment of customers, whether plus-size or &quot;straight&quot;-size, leaves a lot to be desired. I&#039;d list for you the myriad subtle and not-so-subtle details that point to my conclusion, but I doubt you care very much about my opinion of North Style. In engaging with you, I seem to have forgotten one of the cardinal Rules of the Internet: don&#039;t feed the trolls!

If you&#039;d like to further debate fat, fashion, economics, or politics, may I suggest:
http://blog.twowholecakes.com/
http://www.fatnutritionist.com/
http://fatheffalump.wordpress.com/the-rules/
http://www.dailykos.com/]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Economic systems do not exist in a vacuum. They are moderated by the laws and mores of the societies in which they exist. In addition to profits for the investor, unbridled capitalism has given the world such gems as the Triangle Shirtwaist Fire, the Bangladesh factory collapses, and deadly air pollution in China. Suggesting that I learn to sew instead of complaining about the unfair treatment larger women face every day at the hands of clothing retailers is akin to that old chestnut &#8220;America: love it or leave it!&#8221; It&#8217;s because I do care about America that I make my complaints. I&#8217;m one of those idealists who believe that a good thing can be made even better. </p>
<p>When I wrote the post that we are discussing &#8212; more than a year ago, I might add &#8212; I hadn&#8217;t noticed the pricing structure of Woman Within. I&#8217;m happy to admit this mistake, since learning from mistakes is a wonderful avenue for growth. It doesn&#8217;t change the fact that North Style&#8217;s treatment of customers, whether plus-size or &#8220;straight&#8221;-size, leaves a lot to be desired. I&#8217;d list for you the myriad subtle and not-so-subtle details that point to my conclusion, but I doubt you care very much about my opinion of North Style. In engaging with you, I seem to have forgotten one of the cardinal Rules of the Internet: don&#8217;t feed the trolls!</p>
<p>If you&#8217;d like to further debate fat, fashion, economics, or politics, may I suggest:<br />
<a href="http://blog.twowholecakes.com/" rel="nofollow">http://blog.twowholecakes.com/</a><br />
<a href="http://www.fatnutritionist.com/" rel="nofollow">http://www.fatnutritionist.com/</a><br />
<a href="http://fatheffalump.wordpress.com/the-rules/" rel="nofollow">http://fatheffalump.wordpress.com/the-rules/</a><br />
<a href="http://www.dailykos.com/" rel="nofollow">http://www.dailykos.com/</a></p>
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		<title>Comment on The Nightingale by Rallentanda</title>
		<link>http://okelle.wordpress.com/2013/05/13/the-nightingale/#comment-3011</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Rallentanda]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 06:26:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I like this almost rambling surreal stream of consciousness style...very appealing with a touch of humour!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I like this almost rambling surreal stream of consciousness style&#8230;very appealing with a touch of humour!</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Nightingale by claudia</title>
		<link>http://okelle.wordpress.com/2013/05/13/the-nightingale/#comment-3010</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[claudia]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 05:52:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[complex-ilk...cool...love your verse...and so funny that we realize things sometimes only after someone pointed the way, no matter how square like the drunk student shouting...very cool piece okelle]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>complex-ilk&#8230;cool&#8230;love your verse&#8230;and so funny that we realize things sometimes only after someone pointed the way, no matter how square like the drunk student shouting&#8230;very cool piece okelle</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Nightingale by brian miller</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[brian miller]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 May 2013 17:35:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[ha...great write....love your meeting the bird...and the drunk college kid yelling at it...lol....we do tend to fill our world full of noise and miss the music of nature...]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ha&#8230;great write&#8230;.love your meeting the bird&#8230;and the drunk college kid yelling at it&#8230;lol&#8230;.we do tend to fill our world full of noise and miss the music of nature&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Comment on Open Letter to North Style by Heather</title>
		<link>http://okelle.wordpress.com/2012/04/26/open-letter-to-north-style/#comment-3008</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Heather]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2013 20:35:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[You&#039;re correct, I did ignore the inflammatory statements Rob made related to lifestyle and such; mostly because they are non-productive. I don&#039;t know if you&#039;ve seen the recent news involving Abercrombie and Fitch but they are under fire for not offering larger sizes at all.

 I&#039;m sure you&#039;re being coy about why each size doesn&#039;t have its own incremental price point. Doing so would increase the price of all sizes to compensate for the additional administration - this is basic economics, like the rest of my comment.

You never did address the fact that Woman Within, a plus-size brand you mentioned as preferable to North  Style practices the SAME up-charge for sizes outside of their average. This average is not meant to make larger people feel fat, unhealthy or any other way. It was chosen for manufacturing costs. Do you feel like the +24W women should not be up-charged for more material costs? If you do, you&#039;d better learn how to sew because either the cost of all garments goes up to compensate for administrative costs over individual size pricing or the brands all go broke from charging less than what larger garments cost to make.

 It is simple economics - no more, no less. The fashion industry offers every size with each brand catering to the range they are marketing to. Profit focused? Yes, it&#039;s called capitalism, this is America. If you don&#039;t like it there&#039;s always the choice to sew your own.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You&#8217;re correct, I did ignore the inflammatory statements Rob made related to lifestyle and such; mostly because they are non-productive. I don&#8217;t know if you&#8217;ve seen the recent news involving Abercrombie and Fitch but they are under fire for not offering larger sizes at all.</p>
<p> I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;re being coy about why each size doesn&#8217;t have its own incremental price point. Doing so would increase the price of all sizes to compensate for the additional administration &#8211; this is basic economics, like the rest of my comment.</p>
<p>You never did address the fact that Woman Within, a plus-size brand you mentioned as preferable to North  Style practices the SAME up-charge for sizes outside of their average. This average is not meant to make larger people feel fat, unhealthy or any other way. It was chosen for manufacturing costs. Do you feel like the +24W women should not be up-charged for more material costs? If you do, you&#8217;d better learn how to sew because either the cost of all garments goes up to compensate for administrative costs over individual size pricing or the brands all go broke from charging less than what larger garments cost to make.</p>
<p> It is simple economics &#8211; no more, no less. The fashion industry offers every size with each brand catering to the range they are marketing to. Profit focused? Yes, it&#8217;s called capitalism, this is America. If you don&#8217;t like it there&#8217;s always the choice to sew your own.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Open Letter to North Style by Okelle</title>
		<link>http://okelle.wordpress.com/2012/04/26/open-letter-to-north-style/#comment-3007</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Okelle]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2013 20:16:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Heather, I think you may be missing Rob&#039;s point. Let&#039;s return to the text, shall we? Rob says, &quot;Why should those who live a healthy lifestyle, have to subsidize the extra material and cost it takes to make plus sized clothes?&quot;

He&#039;s making two assumptions here: first, that being thin is the same thing as leading a healthy lifestyle, and second, that being fat does not. His entire comment contains both implicit and explicit value judgments related to size. In fact, he seems to think that larger women should pay extra for their clothes as some kind of punitive &quot;up-charge&quot; for our supposedly unhealthy lifestyles.

While I appreciate your business-focused argument, I challenge your assumption that there are no implicit or explicit value judgments in additional costs for plus-sized clothes. And who exactly gets to decide what the average is? And why is it not administratively burdensome for clothing manufacturers to charge for sizes on the other side of this so-called &quot;average.&quot;? Your argument that the extra material costs more is specious at best. The fashion industry is notoriously sizeist, and also notoriously profit-oriented. The reason why plus-sized clothes cost more is not because they cost more to make. It&#039;s because we as a society think that people should pay more for being fat.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Heather, I think you may be missing Rob&#8217;s point. Let&#8217;s return to the text, shall we? Rob says, &#8220;Why should those who live a healthy lifestyle, have to subsidize the extra material and cost it takes to make plus sized clothes?&#8221;</p>
<p>He&#8217;s making two assumptions here: first, that being thin is the same thing as leading a healthy lifestyle, and second, that being fat does not. His entire comment contains both implicit and explicit value judgments related to size. In fact, he seems to think that larger women should pay extra for their clothes as some kind of punitive &#8220;up-charge&#8221; for our supposedly unhealthy lifestyles.</p>
<p>While I appreciate your business-focused argument, I challenge your assumption that there are no implicit or explicit value judgments in additional costs for plus-sized clothes. And who exactly gets to decide what the average is? And why is it not administratively burdensome for clothing manufacturers to charge for sizes on the other side of this so-called &#8220;average.&#8221;? Your argument that the extra material costs more is specious at best. The fashion industry is notoriously sizeist, and also notoriously profit-oriented. The reason why plus-sized clothes cost more is not because they cost more to make. It&#8217;s because we as a society think that people should pay more for being fat.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Open Letter to North Style by Heather</title>
		<link>http://okelle.wordpress.com/2012/04/26/open-letter-to-north-style/#comment-3006</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Heather]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2013 12:15:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Exactly my point. The price is based on an average of the base sizes the vendor chooses. Once you are outside the average, you are up charged. Woman Within also has an up charge starting at size 24W I believe it is. So why doesn&#039;t a 14W get charged less than a 20W? Same reason - 14W-24W is WW&#039;s base average.

It would be too administratively burdensome for a vendor to incrementally charge by individual size. In this case though, it&#039;s actually the smaller sizes being overcharged and not the larger.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Exactly my point. The price is based on an average of the base sizes the vendor chooses. Once you are outside the average, you are up charged. Woman Within also has an up charge starting at size 24W I believe it is. So why doesn&#8217;t a 14W get charged less than a 20W? Same reason &#8211; 14W-24W is WW&#8217;s base average.</p>
<p>It would be too administratively burdensome for a vendor to incrementally charge by individual size. In this case though, it&#8217;s actually the smaller sizes being overcharged and not the larger.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Open Letter to North Style by Okelle</title>
		<link>http://okelle.wordpress.com/2012/04/26/open-letter-to-north-style/#comment-3005</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Okelle]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2013 02:30:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Then why don&#039;t they charge more for a size 10 than for a size 6?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Then why don&#8217;t they charge more for a size 10 than for a size 6?</p>
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		<title>Comment on Open Letter to North Style by Heather</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Heather]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 12 May 2013 15:41:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I think a few folks are missing Rob&#039;s point. If I go to Starbucks and want a bigger latte they charge me more. If I go to Wendy&#039;s and want a medium order of fries instead of the combo standard of small, they charge me more.

If I need to wear clothes that require more material and labor, I should be willing to pay more. Heck, even if I made my own clothes, as a larger size I would need to pay to get more material. The retailer bases their price on an average of material/labor for a set size. If your logic of not having to pay more for a larger size were true, why not those who order XS pay less? They&#039;re using less material and labor, but no, they pay what the &#039;average range&#039; of sizes pay - even though you can probably  make 1.5 XS garments out of what 1 XL (still in that range) costs to make.

The other retailers you point out are marketed ONLY to plus-size gals so their costs basis does not include more than one average range. By the way, look more closely at your Woman Within catalog, they DO charge more for sizes at the top end of their average range. This isn&#039;t a statement on lifestyle choice, what&#039;s healthy, who&#039;s happy or any of the other emotional comments that precede mine. It&#039;s plain business in that if you want more materials/labor for an item you should be willing to pay for it. Period.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think a few folks are missing Rob&#8217;s point. If I go to Starbucks and want a bigger latte they charge me more. If I go to Wendy&#8217;s and want a medium order of fries instead of the combo standard of small, they charge me more.</p>
<p>If I need to wear clothes that require more material and labor, I should be willing to pay more. Heck, even if I made my own clothes, as a larger size I would need to pay to get more material. The retailer bases their price on an average of material/labor for a set size. If your logic of not having to pay more for a larger size were true, why not those who order XS pay less? They&#8217;re using less material and labor, but no, they pay what the &#8216;average range&#8217; of sizes pay &#8211; even though you can probably  make 1.5 XS garments out of what 1 XL (still in that range) costs to make.</p>
<p>The other retailers you point out are marketed ONLY to plus-size gals so their costs basis does not include more than one average range. By the way, look more closely at your Woman Within catalog, they DO charge more for sizes at the top end of their average range. This isn&#8217;t a statement on lifestyle choice, what&#8217;s healthy, who&#8217;s happy or any of the other emotional comments that precede mine. It&#8217;s plain business in that if you want more materials/labor for an item you should be willing to pay for it. Period.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Beltane 2013 &#8211; union and loneliness by Okelle</title>
		<link>http://okelle.wordpress.com/2013/05/02/beltane-in-2013-union-and-loneliness/#comment-3002</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Okelle]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 09 May 2013 14:39:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks for commenting and reaffirming my own experience, Nancy and Cathy. I&#039;m glad for social media and other forms of communication that help me keep in touch with my chosen tribe. But as I said in the post, nothing really replaces the immediacy and fulfillment of physical presence. Maybe this year I&#039;ll finally work up the courage to try one of the UU congregations closer to my new home.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for commenting and reaffirming my own experience, Nancy and Cathy. I&#8217;m glad for social media and other forms of communication that help me keep in touch with my chosen tribe. But as I said in the post, nothing really replaces the immediacy and fulfillment of physical presence. Maybe this year I&#8217;ll finally work up the courage to try one of the UU congregations closer to my new home.</p>
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